Matrimonial Digital Safety Checklist
Answer a few questions about the verification steps you've taken so far and we'll estimate how much diligence is still worth doing.
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This tool provides an educational estimate based on your answers. It does not verify the other person, search any database, or guarantee that a match is safe or unsafe.
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What Is the Matrimonial Digital Safety Checklist?
This free tool estimates how well-verified a matrimonial or arranged-marriage match really is, based on the diligence steps you've already taken — identity checks, financial caution, background verification, and meeting safety. You never need to enter the other person's name, phone number, or email. It's a self-assessment, not a lookup tool.
The checklist takes about 90 seconds and gives you a score out of 100, along with a breakdown of which verification areas still need attention and practical next steps for each.
How Is the Score Calculated?
Each of the 10 questions targets a specific verification dimension — identity, financial caution, background diligence, and meeting safety. Answers are weighted by how strongly they correlate with real matrimonial fraud patterns, and combined into a score between 0 and 100, mapped to five levels from Well Verified to High Risk Pattern. The scoring logic is transparent and deterministic — the same answers always produce the same score.
What Can You Do Next?
Your result includes personalised recommendations based on your specific answers. For a deeper look at how to verify a match, read our guides on how to verify a matrimonial profile, common matrimonial scams in India, doing a background check before marriage, and reverse image searching a matrimonial photo. If you want to go beyond a self-assessment, Scan My Shadow's paid scan checks a phone number or email address across 1,500+ breach and public data sources, with a plain-language report delivered to your inbox in minutes. You can also try our other free privacy tools, read our About page, or get in touch if you have questions.